shybigsub9 Profile Information

Need to please and be controlled
Age 43 From Fredericksburg, Virginia - Online - 6 days ago
Woman (Sub) Seeking A Man

Basic Information

I Can Speak  
I Would Describe Myself As  
I need a Dom who likes full time control and power exchange. Your intelligence and words will show if you are genuine so let’s take the time to get to know each other and if your dominant style is what I respect and like, my submission will come naturally. Once I do submit, I give my all including loyalty, devotion, obedience, trust, and commitment.

I'm looking for a Dom who I can serve with pleasure and be cared for in return. I’m monogamous and want a Dom to be too, but this is negotiable. I'm an obese woman, who is healthy, but getting healthier everyday and your patience, support, and understanding will be appreciated.

You have to make sure I'm the right sub for you and I have to make sure you're the Dom I need you to be. Trust and respect are earned before submission and obedience is given.

Hopefully we can be a match.

Appearance & Situation

My Body Type Is  
My Height Is  
5' 9 (1.75 m)
My Eyes Are  
My Ethnicity Is  
My Marital Situation Is  
Never Married
I Have Kids  
I Want Kids  
My Best Feature Is  
Body Art  
Pierced... But Only Ear(s)
My Hair Is  
I Have One Or More Of These  
Willing To Relocate  


My Education Level Is  
College Degree
My Current Employment Status Is  
My Speciality Is  
Administrative / Management
My Job Title Is  
I Make This Much In A Year  
$30,000USD To $44,999USD
I Live  
With Roomate(s)
At Home  
It Gets A Bit Crazy Sometimes
I'm A Smoker  
I Drink  
Yes - One Or Two


Back In High School, I Was A  
My Social Behavior Is  
Reserved, Shy, Observant, Anti-social, Friendly, Comedic
My Interest And Hobbies Are  
Dining, Reading, Arts & Crafts, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Games, Clubbing / Bar Hopping, Dancing, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Playing Cards, Camping, Gambling, Computers
My Idea Of A Great Time Is  
Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Clubbing / Bars, Drinking, Reading A Book, Going To A Casino, Playing Dress-up, Playing Video Games, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum
An Ideal First Date Would Be  
Have a man talk me through cooking his dinner so that we both learn how he likes to train, his patience if mistakes are made, and how well I can learn. Once "we" are done cooking, eating a quiet meal outside on a deck/patio and discuss what expectations were met or not met during cooking...then maybe if things go well...he can ask me over again for a second date ;-)
I've Always Wanted To Try  
Going to a BDSM club.
My Friends Describe Me As Being  


My Religion Is  
I Attend Services  
My Political Views Are  
Middle Of The Road
My Goal In Life Is  
To make the people I love happy, including myself, of course!
My Kind Of Humor Is  
Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Raunchy, Sadistic


On Tv, I Always Watch  
Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Instructional, Movies, I Don't Like Tv, Reality Shows, Re-runs
My Top 3 Tv Shows Are  
Outlander, Big Bang Theory, PBS Masterpiece shows
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A  
Action, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Family
My Top 3 Movies Are  
The Notebook, A Beautiful Mind, Goodfellas
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To  
Country, Rap, Rock, Metal, Pop, Blues, New age, Ambient, Dance, Gospel, Punk
My Top 3 Musical Artists Are  
Randy Travis, Adele, Elvis
When I Read, I Always Read  
Biography, Business, Classic, Computers, Fiction, Health, History, Humor, Mystery, Philosophy, Reference, Romance, Erotica
My Top 3 Books Are  
All of the Masters of the Shadowlands series by Cherise Sinclair
My Idea Of Fun Is  
Anything you desire....but i prefer movies, dancing, music, and books.

Looking for

What Do You Find Attractive?  
Wit, Power, Boldness, Sensitivity, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence
What Do You Look For?  
I am looking for other submissive friends and Dom who understand the lifestyle I enjoy living and respect the bounds agreed upon.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?  
Internet Buddy, Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed, Marriage, Domination, Just Wanna Fuck